start back the other way
Nov. 29th, 2025 02:34 pmI arrived at my sister's on Wednesday, just as she left to pick Baby Miss L up from school, so I got to spend an afternoon with her and my middle niece, who as previously mentioned, had to work on Thursday and wouldn't be joining the holiday dinner. We had a fantastic time - Baby Miss L opened her birthday presents and declared the clothes, "Cute!" She also liked the books - she can identify Batman on sight - "Batman!" - and also really liked "Peekaboo Who?" She played with the magnetic tiles I gave her, and then we had a Sesame Street-themed dance party. She also acted out "Do You Want to Build a Snowman?" when it came on.
Thanksgiving dinner itself was also lovely, though since one of my cousins invited herself since she had nowhere else to go, we were better behaved than we might normally be.
I once again floated the idea of pajama Christmas, which my sister and niece were 100% into, but my brother-in-law was not, so unfortunately, much like apps and dessert Christmas (my other perennial suggestion that gets ignored), I don't think it's going to happen.
Then I came home yesterday morning and napped for like 3 hours, and then I watched the third period of the Rangers game and the Bears-Eagles game, so it was kind of a weird day - was it Friday? Was it Sunday? It was hard to tell.
I did finally open the box of mason jars I ordered to use for my work holiday gifts and realized I ordered 8oz jars instead of 16oz ones, so I only need half as many pecans as I thought. Which my wallet appreciates. I'm running the first set through the dishwasher, and then I need to do a test run of the recipe to make sure I know how to do it - the comments recommend using ziploc bags instead of bowls and that seems like a wise plan to me, but I also think maybe a bowl for the egg whites and a bag for the sugar might be the way to go, using a slotted spoon to transfer from bowl to bag.
We'll see how it goes.
*
Thanksgiving dinner itself was also lovely, though since one of my cousins invited herself since she had nowhere else to go, we were better behaved than we might normally be.
I once again floated the idea of pajama Christmas, which my sister and niece were 100% into, but my brother-in-law was not, so unfortunately, much like apps and dessert Christmas (my other perennial suggestion that gets ignored), I don't think it's going to happen.
Then I came home yesterday morning and napped for like 3 hours, and then I watched the third period of the Rangers game and the Bears-Eagles game, so it was kind of a weird day - was it Friday? Was it Sunday? It was hard to tell.
I did finally open the box of mason jars I ordered to use for my work holiday gifts and realized I ordered 8oz jars instead of 16oz ones, so I only need half as many pecans as I thought. Which my wallet appreciates. I'm running the first set through the dishwasher, and then I need to do a test run of the recipe to make sure I know how to do it - the comments recommend using ziploc bags instead of bowls and that seems like a wise plan to me, but I also think maybe a bowl for the egg whites and a bag for the sugar might be the way to go, using a slotted spoon to transfer from bowl to bag.
We'll see how it goes.
*
Unofficial Fandom 50: Terence Rattigan [3/50]
Nov. 29th, 2025 06:47 pmSince I've been trying to watch (or listen to) all of the Rattigans lately, this seems like a good topic for a post!
Who was Rattigan?
Terence Rattigan (1911-1977) was an English playwright and screenwriter, whose most famous works are The Browning Version (1948), The Winslow Boy (1946), The Deep Blue Sea (1952) & Separate Tables (1954). His works are usually sharply observed, low-key character pieces, mostly v middle-class background*, one of a combination of factors that caused him to fall from favour in the wake of Osborne's Look Back in Anger in the 50s. He wrote for (low-brow!) cinema, radio and TV too, another factor. Since the 90s in particular he's been recognised as one of the 20th C greats, via several major revivals of many of his works and you'd be hard pressed to find a year now when some major British theatre or other isn't putting on a Rattigan.
He was gay, which is evident in many of his plays, although usually more implicitly than explicitly - the most explicit use of a gay character, in Separate Tables, he censored himself prior to its Broadway performance. From 1998, though, happily, modern productions have usually restored the original version. The Browning Version isn't explicit, but is very much about queerness, too.
I came across him when my teacher gave us The Browning Version for A-Level, and instantly fell in love, even if it took me thirty-odd years to finally get up and try some of the rest of his plays. I think I was worried that they wouldn't be as good or would contain aspects that might spoil TBV for me - happily, as you can see, I needn't have worried!
What do I love about his works?
He's very much all about character pieces, especially small-scale, claustrophobic ones (which the theatre naturally tends towards), in a way that I really love.
His first success was the farce French Without Tears (1936), so between that and the screen-writing, he's a very easy watch, in the best sense - his dialogue says so much about character, and often still feels fresh, and he can do light comedy as well as the more serious pieces. You'll often find variations on mismatched marriages, moral choices, people from different positions finding understanding of each other, and trial by the media in one form or another. His characterisation is always well-rounded and complex.
The thing I love the most, though, is his characteristic trick of having so much of the mood or conclusion or character shift on a literal sixpence - one small item, or action, or change of point of view leads to an uplift of hope we didn't expect - and on rare occasions, the reverse, acting as the last spiteful straw. The gift of a book, the discovery of a letter, love of art - how big small things can be to us humans.
I'll talk about specific plays if I carry on with this meme, I'm sure, but I definitely think he's worth trying out if you haven't already. There are a range of adaptations around, new and old, (TV, film, Radio, some of which he wrote the screenplays for himself), as well as current theatre productions.
The National Theatre has a really nice little two-part intro to five of his major works (spoilery, though, as ever with these things) - I presume this means they have some Rattigans on their At Home service, too. If you wanted to try a live production, The Winslow Boy or The Browning Version are particularly good starting places.
(Warnings - not many! He's not a bleak writer at all as a rule, but suicide does crop up in various ways in After the Dance, The Deep Blue Sea, Cause Celebre, and Man and Boy; and In Praise of Love has a character with a terminal illness - leukaemia, which he had himself).
The last thing of his I watched was Heart to Heart, a 1962 BBC TV screenplay written to launch one of their anthologies - it deals again with mismatched marriages, trial by the media, and an attempt to do the right thing that isn't very successful, but at the end, the main character, learning that out of nearly 300 people who phoned into the TV station after a broadcast, 3 of them got the point: "That's something," he says. "They must be very interesting people."
How very Rattigan. ♥
* He attended Harrow, although wiki, if it is to be believed, says that while he was there, he was in its Officer Training Course and started a mutiny, which is brilliant if it's true. <3
Who was Rattigan?
Terence Rattigan (1911-1977) was an English playwright and screenwriter, whose most famous works are The Browning Version (1948), The Winslow Boy (1946), The Deep Blue Sea (1952) & Separate Tables (1954). His works are usually sharply observed, low-key character pieces, mostly v middle-class background*, one of a combination of factors that caused him to fall from favour in the wake of Osborne's Look Back in Anger in the 50s. He wrote for (low-brow!) cinema, radio and TV too, another factor. Since the 90s in particular he's been recognised as one of the 20th C greats, via several major revivals of many of his works and you'd be hard pressed to find a year now when some major British theatre or other isn't putting on a Rattigan.
He was gay, which is evident in many of his plays, although usually more implicitly than explicitly - the most explicit use of a gay character, in Separate Tables, he censored himself prior to its Broadway performance. From 1998, though, happily, modern productions have usually restored the original version. The Browning Version isn't explicit, but is very much about queerness, too.
I came across him when my teacher gave us The Browning Version for A-Level, and instantly fell in love, even if it took me thirty-odd years to finally get up and try some of the rest of his plays. I think I was worried that they wouldn't be as good or would contain aspects that might spoil TBV for me - happily, as you can see, I needn't have worried!
What do I love about his works?
He's very much all about character pieces, especially small-scale, claustrophobic ones (which the theatre naturally tends towards), in a way that I really love.
His first success was the farce French Without Tears (1936), so between that and the screen-writing, he's a very easy watch, in the best sense - his dialogue says so much about character, and often still feels fresh, and he can do light comedy as well as the more serious pieces. You'll often find variations on mismatched marriages, moral choices, people from different positions finding understanding of each other, and trial by the media in one form or another. His characterisation is always well-rounded and complex.
The thing I love the most, though, is his characteristic trick of having so much of the mood or conclusion or character shift on a literal sixpence - one small item, or action, or change of point of view leads to an uplift of hope we didn't expect - and on rare occasions, the reverse, acting as the last spiteful straw. The gift of a book, the discovery of a letter, love of art - how big small things can be to us humans.
I'll talk about specific plays if I carry on with this meme, I'm sure, but I definitely think he's worth trying out if you haven't already. There are a range of adaptations around, new and old, (TV, film, Radio, some of which he wrote the screenplays for himself), as well as current theatre productions.
The National Theatre has a really nice little two-part intro to five of his major works (spoilery, though, as ever with these things) - I presume this means they have some Rattigans on their At Home service, too. If you wanted to try a live production, The Winslow Boy or The Browning Version are particularly good starting places.
(Warnings - not many! He's not a bleak writer at all as a rule, but suicide does crop up in various ways in After the Dance, The Deep Blue Sea, Cause Celebre, and Man and Boy; and In Praise of Love has a character with a terminal illness - leukaemia, which he had himself).
The last thing of his I watched was Heart to Heart, a 1962 BBC TV screenplay written to launch one of their anthologies - it deals again with mismatched marriages, trial by the media, and an attempt to do the right thing that isn't very successful, but at the end, the main character, learning that out of nearly 300 people who phoned into the TV station after a broadcast, 3 of them got the point: "That's something," he says. "They must be very interesting people."
How very Rattigan. ♥
* He attended Harrow, although wiki, if it is to be believed, says that while he was there, he was in its Officer Training Course and started a mutiny, which is brilliant if it's true. <3
AO3 tags meme
Nov. 29th, 2025 09:16 amAs seen on
smallhobbit’s DW
From your AO3 Works page, look at the tags and find the answers to these questions. I'm
shallowness on AO3.
1. Under what rating do you write most?
General (219)
Teen (39)
Mature (5)
2. What are your top 3 fandoms?
Dark Angel (TV) (39)
Sky High (2005) (28)
Harry Potter - J. K. Rowling (23)
3. Which character do you write about most?
Alec McDowell | X5-494 (28)
Max Guevara | X5-452 (26)
Layla Williams (21)
4. What are the 3 top pairings you've written?
Max Guevara | X5-452/Alec McDowell | X5-494 (21)
Warren Peace/Layla Williams (18)
Selina Kyle/Bruce Wayne (12)
5. What are the top 3 additional tags?
Comment Fic (37)
Drabble (24)
Future Fic (20)
I imagine that hasn’t changed much since I last did this meme, IF I’ve ever done this exact meme. If I had posted all my fics to AO3, perhaps some of the numbers would change, but not the positions.
From your AO3 Works page, look at the tags and find the answers to these questions. I'm
1. Under what rating do you write most?
General (219)
Teen (39)
Mature (5)
2. What are your top 3 fandoms?
Dark Angel (TV) (39)
Sky High (2005) (28)
Harry Potter - J. K. Rowling (23)
3. Which character do you write about most?
Alec McDowell | X5-494 (28)
Max Guevara | X5-452 (26)
Layla Williams (21)
4. What are the 3 top pairings you've written?
Max Guevara | X5-452/Alec McDowell | X5-494 (21)
Warren Peace/Layla Williams (18)
Selina Kyle/Bruce Wayne (12)
5. What are the top 3 additional tags?
Comment Fic (37)
Drabble (24)
Future Fic (20)
I imagine that hasn’t changed much since I last did this meme, IF I’ve ever done this exact meme. If I had posted all my fics to AO3, perhaps some of the numbers would change, but not the positions.
Pluribus 1.05
Nov. 27th, 2025 11:43 amIn which the Hive just needs space, okay?
( Figures it would use the voice of Howard Hamlin to demand it… )
( Figures it would use the voice of Howard Hamlin to demand it… )
more Petrichor thoughts
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Nemesis Games
Nov. 26th, 2025 06:37 pmI finished Nemesis Games today. It's book 5 in The Expanse and covers the start of the Free Navy arc. I went into it with a little trepidation, ( light spoilers for Nemesis Games )
I hate that I hate soup.
Nov. 26th, 2025 03:10 pmI made a giant pot of cream of mushroom soup. I should have brought the leftovers in as there were several people who indicated interest. It did turn out well! I just... panic remembered that I kind of hate soup? Meh. Maybe I'll buy some nice bread on the way home and try it after a night in the fridge? That helps sometimes.
Anywho. The soup did turn out well! I made the mashed potatoes and prepped the other parts of the green bean casserole. Pie is tonight. I forgot to put the pie shells in the fridge this morning (Wink was yelling about breakfast) so I'll probably prep the stuff tonight and bake it tomorrow morning. I'm also bringing the ingredients for the scalloped corn to bake at mom's tomorrow. I think dinner's ~3pm, so I'll have time. Especially as it apparently is gonna snow? IDK.
I am just excited to hang out, get my left overs and snuggle in with the girls this weekend. My new betting is fab and I am ready to be a lump.
Anywho. The soup did turn out well! I made the mashed potatoes and prepped the other parts of the green bean casserole. Pie is tonight. I forgot to put the pie shells in the fridge this morning (Wink was yelling about breakfast) so I'll probably prep the stuff tonight and bake it tomorrow morning. I'm also bringing the ingredients for the scalloped corn to bake at mom's tomorrow. I think dinner's ~3pm, so I'll have time. Especially as it apparently is gonna snow? IDK.
I am just excited to hang out, get my left overs and snuggle in with the girls this weekend. My new betting is fab and I am ready to be a lump.
then i met you at the station in Ronkonkoma
Nov. 25th, 2025 11:33 pmWork today was a lot, but I got done everything I needed to get done and got out. There are stories I could tell but I'm too tired right now to rehash some of the nonsense my coworkers get up to.
Tomorrow, I am heading out to the island for Thanksgiving, and also to see Baby Miss L. She turns three on Monday! THREE! How is that even possible!? (I'm sure I will be posting the same exact thing on Monday.) But they are not having a family party for her, just a friends party, since she has so many friends now! She is quite the social butterfly! So I've packed up the books and clothes that are her birthday gift (and 1 toy - a magnetic tile thing she can build things with), and tomorrow she can open her presents! They go to my niece's in-laws for Thanksgiving (so they spend Christmas day with us), so I might not see her on the day itself, but that's okay I guess, especially if I get some time tomorrow. Plus, middle niece is going to stop by since she is working on Thursday (she's a nurse), so I will get to see her as well. All in all a good time, I hope!
If I don't get a chance to post tomorrow, I hope everyone celebrating has a Happy Thanksgiving! And everyone else has a great Friday Eve, also known as Thursday.
*
Tomorrow, I am heading out to the island for Thanksgiving, and also to see Baby Miss L. She turns three on Monday! THREE! How is that even possible!? (I'm sure I will be posting the same exact thing on Monday.) But they are not having a family party for her, just a friends party, since she has so many friends now! She is quite the social butterfly! So I've packed up the books and clothes that are her birthday gift (and 1 toy - a magnetic tile thing she can build things with), and tomorrow she can open her presents! They go to my niece's in-laws for Thanksgiving (so they spend Christmas day with us), so I might not see her on the day itself, but that's okay I guess, especially if I get some time tomorrow. Plus, middle niece is going to stop by since she is working on Thursday (she's a nurse), so I will get to see her as well. All in all a good time, I hope!
If I don't get a chance to post tomorrow, I hope everyone celebrating has a Happy Thanksgiving! And everyone else has a great Friday Eve, also known as Thursday.
*
putting my sci-fi book on sale!
Nov. 25th, 2025 11:43 amSo my book The Dementia: A Space Adventure is on sale right now for $0.99, and it's wide, so it's available on all the major retailers.
You can get it here: https://books2read.com/TheDementiaASpaceAdventure
This is your sign friends! If you've been thinking about getting it, it's as cheap as Amazon will let me go! This only applies to the e-book version (not paperback, which is not on sale and only on Amazon still. I'm working on it.)
Also, and very important: if just one person buys my book on Amazon, then I can screenshot 69 sales. Nice!

You can get it here: https://books2read.com/TheDementiaASpaceAdventure
This is your sign friends! If you've been thinking about getting it, it's as cheap as Amazon will let me go! This only applies to the e-book version (not paperback, which is not on sale and only on Amazon still. I'm working on it.)
Also, and very important: if just one person buys my book on Amazon, then I can screenshot 69 sales. Nice!

A mildly dire 30 hour period.
Nov. 25th, 2025 08:56 amThe hilarious thing about all of this is that up until the end of the whole business, I was in a pretty good mood.
Mom's birthday was last week and she had some testing that she needed a ride for, so Sunday afternoon, I caught Metra out to her. A band that she really enjoys was playing nearby, so she'd got tickets. We grabbed dinner and went to the show.
Now, I've come to realize that I don't actually enjoy concerts? I like having gone to a concert and enjoying a piece of art like that, but the actual time from the first notes until I can leave is... complex. Anyway, the show was fine and mom seemed to have a lovely time! That was the important bit.
Well. When I walked outside, it was pretty clear that there was a fire happening somewhere. Like a big, 3-5 alarm thing going on. We later found out it was a junkyard fire which. Woof. Anyway, I start coughing instantly as ~allergic to smoke~ and it takes mom a bit longer to start having a reaction. She's allergic to leaves and some other something. Anyway, the plan was for us to drive up to the location where her testing was going to happen so that we could get a good night sleep and not have to get up at ass-o'clock to get her to the testing site. It's ~an hour away, and there's not really a direct highway route, so no matter what you have to take the back roads.
( Mom tantrum grumbling. )
Honestly, I think she was just really nervous about the testing and the allergy stuff set her off harder. Which, look. I spent my entire childhood and early adulthood being reamed out constantly for a.) not being able to read people's minds b.) not being prepared for every possibility of a situation and c.) being left to manage my own illnesses and sickness in a way that didn't inconvenience other people. I'm not real impressed with mom at the moment.
Anyway, we get up well ahead of when we need to so we can get dressed and go grab breakfast. I'd planned to drag us to the Panera nearby, which is good and has a nice breakfast, but mom got nervous and so we paid entirely too much for the hotel breakfast that was fine but was not great. Still, we went to the testing, which was supposed to end ~11. Mom finally got out at 12:30, so our plans to grab lunch got interrupted because there was a 1:05 train home.
Well, there was supposed to be. Apparently, someone got hit by a train and no one noticed until the train was about to roll out? I hope the guy is ok. But, the train got delayed an hour and then I got word from my boss that I hadn't done timesheets and that they were due. Which I thought they were due on Wednesday. Anyway, I couldn't log in because 2FA and my phone is from 2016 and overheating, so I had to race home (not leisurely wander) to get everything done by 4. THEN I went and did a few weeks worth of laundry and all my bedding as I'd originally planned to get home around 3, then wash everything and have an early night.
Man, five loads of laundry and folding/replacing the duvet cover was a lot more ambitious than I had planned.
I eventually fell into bed and am overall grumpy that doing a good deed involved a whole lot of emotional work on my part.
And I still have to make pie and some other dishes for Thursday. God bless the dump and bake ones though.
Update: And now my phone is more actively in the process of dying? Fingers crossed the replacement a.) makes it on time and b.) is compatible. Sigh.
Mom's birthday was last week and she had some testing that she needed a ride for, so Sunday afternoon, I caught Metra out to her. A band that she really enjoys was playing nearby, so she'd got tickets. We grabbed dinner and went to the show.
Now, I've come to realize that I don't actually enjoy concerts? I like having gone to a concert and enjoying a piece of art like that, but the actual time from the first notes until I can leave is... complex. Anyway, the show was fine and mom seemed to have a lovely time! That was the important bit.
Well. When I walked outside, it was pretty clear that there was a fire happening somewhere. Like a big, 3-5 alarm thing going on. We later found out it was a junkyard fire which. Woof. Anyway, I start coughing instantly as ~allergic to smoke~ and it takes mom a bit longer to start having a reaction. She's allergic to leaves and some other something. Anyway, the plan was for us to drive up to the location where her testing was going to happen so that we could get a good night sleep and not have to get up at ass-o'clock to get her to the testing site. It's ~an hour away, and there's not really a direct highway route, so no matter what you have to take the back roads.
( Mom tantrum grumbling. )
Honestly, I think she was just really nervous about the testing and the allergy stuff set her off harder. Which, look. I spent my entire childhood and early adulthood being reamed out constantly for a.) not being able to read people's minds b.) not being prepared for every possibility of a situation and c.) being left to manage my own illnesses and sickness in a way that didn't inconvenience other people. I'm not real impressed with mom at the moment.
Anyway, we get up well ahead of when we need to so we can get dressed and go grab breakfast. I'd planned to drag us to the Panera nearby, which is good and has a nice breakfast, but mom got nervous and so we paid entirely too much for the hotel breakfast that was fine but was not great. Still, we went to the testing, which was supposed to end ~11. Mom finally got out at 12:30, so our plans to grab lunch got interrupted because there was a 1:05 train home.
Well, there was supposed to be. Apparently, someone got hit by a train and no one noticed until the train was about to roll out? I hope the guy is ok. But, the train got delayed an hour and then I got word from my boss that I hadn't done timesheets and that they were due. Which I thought they were due on Wednesday. Anyway, I couldn't log in because 2FA and my phone is from 2016 and overheating, so I had to race home (not leisurely wander) to get everything done by 4. THEN I went and did a few weeks worth of laundry and all my bedding as I'd originally planned to get home around 3, then wash everything and have an early night.
Man, five loads of laundry and folding/replacing the duvet cover was a lot more ambitious than I had planned.
I eventually fell into bed and am overall grumpy that doing a good deed involved a whole lot of emotional work on my part.
And I still have to make pie and some other dishes for Thursday. God bless the dump and bake ones though.
Update: And now my phone is more actively in the process of dying? Fingers crossed the replacement a.) makes it on time and b.) is compatible. Sigh.